I don't understand it really..people complain of their bf/gf being too controlling and not letting them hang out with other girls, or that they have been cheated on, or abused, or that their parents hate them, or that he/she doesn't want to find a job.
Some things should be complete deal breakers, some things you can't make work. Do you really want to spend the rest of your life with someone who has completely different values than you? someone who cheats on you or abuses you or controls you?
Why is it that people try to make these relationships that are clearly not right work all the time? Why can't people just say okay i am done with this. Just wondering because to me it's a simple are we compatable, can I trust you enough so that you can hang out with your girl friends and give you space to go out with your guys and know you won't cheat on me or abuse me. If the answer to any of those is a no then I will dump you right away no questions asked.
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Some people can't just move to a new relationship. Especially guys. The guys who are poor -average with girls will do anything in their power to keep her (usually unsuccessfully), or as the adage goes "pussy whipped" it is shit and I been destroyed by if. I stayed way too long in a relationship that shouldn't have been. Why? I come from a heavy religious background, and that in combination with my poor social skills made me think that a) I couldn't get a girl, so stay with this one, b) separation is a sin. So that's the shit I had to deal with. I have another friend who is a model and he married a lingerie model. But he is a very nice guy, actually could fall into the nice guy syndrome category (yip a model without an ego) she on the other hand was alpha bad girl and even in the beginning she was cheating on him. He wouldn't see it, tried to keep her pleased and only when she shagged his best friend, did he divorce with a heavy heart. Nice guys especially struggle with the concept of abundance.0