My girlfriend won't text me or call me, at all unless I text/call her first. I'm always the one starting up the conversations but she happily talks to me as soon as I start the conversation. I get sick of always having to be the first to text her all the time and she'll go days without doing anything until I eventually break and text/call her. Can I turn this around some how or what should I do in general?
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well I like this guy ad we text a lot. usually it's him who texts first and I do tend to do the same thing your girlfriend does, I dnt text him if he doest text me. the reason why I do this isn't because of the 'let the man chase' mumbo jumbo. it's because I would think he's busy and I wouldn't want to bother him. plus I don't want him to feel like I'm too clingy. and the reason why I would feel this way is because I'm so used to him texting me.. I would naturally think that if he doesn't text me it means he's busy or he just wants a break off of me. so I would wait.. till he texts.
thanks though.. you kinda helped me. now I know that I haw nothig to worry about. I feel like texting him now (:
good luck! and text her she would love that. Betcha she's waiting by her phone right now ;)1