My ex and I broke up 7 months ago. We started having problems a year ago where she was concerned about our future. Mostly I didn't propose to her (after 2 years together) and wasn't sure I was going to commit. She didn't see "signs" of it either like me trying with trips and what not. Last summer I found out she was cheating on me with a guy, staying out late, etc. I confronted her about it. A few months later we broke up.
She moved in with him after the break up, and is now engaged to him (he has 2 kids from another marriage). It's been really difficult. We were really compatible and had a lot going on together, except this thing was a major issue we didn't get through.
I've already been moving on, dating girls, trying new hobbies, traveling, etc. The new girls I meet, I just get a sense I am not meeting the right people or maybe I found lightening in a bottle with her. She was very into me and girls today are too busy with careers/other things.
Did I dodge a bullet?
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You dodged that almost entirely. It may have nicked you in the head a bit when you think you're completely compatible. She cheated, I myself would never see that as compatiblity, that is more of adaptability, which is never good when it causes another person to be placed in the relationship. You sir, are better off and have got a future to look forward to, hold tight to your goals and choose to succeed, then maybe someone worthy of you and you partners time will finally come along.
Good luck my friend0
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