Like if i have to do the whole meet my friends thing i wouldn't want to. They aren't bad people but they are major players and like to do coke and weed and stuff and are users. I dont even want them in my life to be honest but i am loyal to my friends and i have known them a very long time. I meet girls but they all seem to be super outgoing and like i'm going here and there are you going they ask me but i dont have anyone to go with so i dont go. I guess what i am trying to say is it is hard to be confident when you are alone 90% of the time. Any suggestions?
How is a guy that is essentially a Loner supposed to find a girl or get her interest?
What Girls Said 4
Ok, here is the thing about your friends... loyalty is for family. Friends come and go and if they are bad for you and your life then you already know what you need to do. Besides, eventually friendships move on anyways, marriage, kids, in there case maybe jail, j/k... As for the girls asking about your plans... why don't you ask them out? If they say I'm going here, with this person, say. That's cool, maybe we can go 'place of choice' sometime... why are they asking you anyways? are they hitting on you?0
have you tried online dating?1
Find a girl who's also a loner1
Well in my opinion being alone can suck sometimes. Maybe you're waiting for that special someone but don't go searching because you're feeling alone and your confidence should be at a 100% why because you don't think of ur self less so don't stay at home when your friends are going out join just for fun or u can also bring a cool friend/ family member with u if u want nothing personal but just to chill n ease the awkwardness but its all up to u, but u don't have to every time. But I know how your feeling don't let it get to ya but also don't let your confidence go down always try positivity. The right person will come in due time 😊0
What Guys Said 2
Write to a prisoner. Its where I met mine. Just be careful1
What are your hobbies? what do you like doing? join a community who loves that same interest and make friends with other girls1
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