well we met and we had chemistry we talked he said he wanting to know everything so i told him a little about me we like the same music so at the end of the date i kissed ,he asked me on a second date today and said if we could play around like make out all that except sex,so what up is he moving too fast or what?
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Yes, he is moving too fast. He shouldn't actually be asking you about making out. I mean, usually it happens or it doesn't, but you don't negotiate that before the date.
So, if you want a relationship and you want to see that this guy is serious and avoid ending up in bed with him and finding out afterwards he wasn't that in to you, you need to slow this down. A guy who is in to you will have no problem waiting to make out or have sex. They are having so much fun hanging with you and seeing you that waiting for sex isn't a deal breaker. In fact, a guy who is really in to you will be afraid of losing you by being too pushy.1