She would never say what's on her mind or what bothering her. We were long distance for like three months because her parents didn't approve of me. I only treated her like a piece in the beginning because she literally told me she is a whore and only wanted that. She had a hard time unveiling feelings later on. Really hard time.
Towards the end she said I was moody and was picking fights with her. I remember she told me things like oh im probabaly a bigger slut than you are and I haven't even thought a out cheating so I know you haven't. Went on to tell me her count is like 30 as of she were btagging. I blew up and called her a slut and said that's disgusting only because I thought she was trying to impress me.
Distance grew. She would tell me how all these guys would hit on her bunch of stories.. I saw her like once a month and she told.me this constantly.. I called her out saying she was trying to get a rise out of me.
Acts more distant and I assumed she might be cheating.. I accused her she proved me wrong.. she later showed me a message of a guy asking her for nudes on her snapchat.. she denied him and showed me that. I asked who it was said she has no idea. Said ok lol delete him. The next day he is still on her top list. I got mad and said it's pretty simple to delete. Didn't really buy that a random guy that has no idea who she is would think to add her username and ask for nudes.
This girl never showed me anything really at all to show me she cared so I didn't feel comftorable reciprocating back. stupid thing is I know she loved me like crazy and I did too. Its over now.. but honestly do I sound like I'm abusive.. I really was just frusterated with the situation. First real relationship.. stupid rookie mistakes were made I guess.
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She sounds like a manipulative bitch! I would dump her. She is getting you to act out and then she plays the victim card. I have been there.
I went out with a guy once. He would treat me like shit then play the victim when I stood up for myself. That sounds exactly like what you are going through.
Usually a female doesn't say how many guys she has been with to her boyfriend so it doesn't make things weird.
Also I have guys hit on me a lot but I don't tell my bf every guy that hits on me but I do tell him about the ones that stand out because we are fairly open but not every relationship is that open.
But if a guy ever asked me for anything sexual (like nudes) they would be blocked or deleted IMMEDIATELY no questions asked. I only want that kind of attention from my bf.0
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