Every single time, whenever a guy had to choose between me and another girl he never picks me. NEVER. the girl is always lighter skinned or described as having a more bubbly personality. since I am darkskinned being laid back is a huge drawback. I can't get away with it like lighter skinned races
I am so upset right now because nobody wants me. i am angry that i feel like breaking my computer and i cannot control my emotions after being rejected so much in my life. i dont know what to do with myself
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Maybe because you take these things so seriously.
You seem so frustrated about things like guys not liking you that you might not seem fun to hang out with at all.
Is this amount of anger justified for something so small?
I understand how bad it must be to feel rejected, but you need to understand you can't always be the prettiest girl in the room. There will be someone prettier, or smarter, or funnier, but that shouldn't hurt you.
Work on you, do things that make you happy, be successful, and guys will run after you like crazy. But don't do all those things just for the guys.
You'll realize that being "attractive" is overrated, and you'd rather just have someone who likes you for you.1