I'm a very mature person and always have been due to the absence of my father. I took care of my siblings, etc. And I have, for as long as I can remember, been more comfortable around older men. I've never had a relationship with some significantly older (although all of my previous boyfriends were a couple of months older than me). But last year during my summer holidays I met this great, intelligent, handsome men, We just started talking and it felt amazing. As I've said, I am rather mature and look older (that's what I've been told anyway). My point is that the guy I'm dating is 23 years older than me. I should be okay with it and I am for the most part. I have learnt from and about him and developed the depest respect. I feel comfortable with im, I share a connection I have never shared with no other... Maybe this sounds a little far fetched but I think he could be the one. He is extremely intelligent, well mannered and just beautiful inside and out, and in the future we are both willing to pursue this relationship.
I have no real personal concers of our age gap, but would it be accepted in today's society? Not that I care about what other people think (or maybe I do... I think we all do to an extent)...
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Alright, you are at DIFFERENT points in your lives. So no this is toxic. The fact that you need to STATE that you are mature really means your not. I can picture a five year old saying MOMMY MOMMY I am all grown up. Unless, you are at the same points in your lives. However, you didn't specify your age, technically, and you didn't say if you had asked him what he wanted out of this relationship , plus stating what you want out of your relationship.0