the typical guys who have left me for another girl or cheated on me have made me very insecure and cause me to struggle to in trusting my partner, how do I fix this?
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I have been cheated on quite a bit as well. First I would tell your partner about it, as often times you won't even realize you are doing something to question their loyalty to you, if they understand your past they will be much more tolerant of it.
Second, I would just keep reminding yourself that the life happily ever after with your partner is so much better than a life of lonely paranoia.
Third, not saying this is you, but if you are the type that goes after "bad boys" stop. You know who spread the rumors that bad boys are awesome and exiting and good in bed and nice guys are boring and worse than death? Bad boys. Just more of their lies...1
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