I've been waiting to ask one girl out at a time. Like a special girl who stands out and seems different than others. I didn't just want to date a lot of people just because. No however I've realized most of the girls that stand out seem to complicated. Should I just ask multiple girls out. Anyone who just stands out a slight amount. Or should I continue to wait for a special girl that stands out for sure that I find amazing form the beginning? Also I've never been on a date and have low confidence and self esteem, which is better for me?
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I recommend lots of socializing in a non-dating setting with groups of people. Good practice for social interaction, good social interaction, and you'll get a chance to know people... it can be easier to ask someone out if you share an interest and you've got an idea that you can already be friendly with them. Dancing (ballroom, contra, maybe blues if you can be relaxed about it) is an option - I met 2 gfs through dancing. Other social activities exist :)
But I don't recommend just randomly asking slightly interesting girls out. It's an easy step from there to "creepy guy who is always hitting on the girls."0