Girls, would you date a Male Stripper?

I recently started dating a girl I really like a lot! Primarily, I am a graduate student, but I Strip for extra money. I have been dating a girl for 6 weeks, only recently 2 weeks ago told her I strip.. She wasn't thrilled but didn't seem too upset either. Tonight, I am performing at a Male Revue. She is going to go and see me Strip. I will be fully nude for about 20 seconds in one scene tonight. How would you feel if a guy you were dating stripped?
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I really like to hear more thoughts, I am actually really nervous having her in the audience tonight!
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So like any other ladies want to share thier opinion? It would be appreciated...
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  • I would be fine if my partner did it as long as I know I can trust him. Because I understand for some it's just a job, just something they do to go to school or put food on the table and that's great.
    Of course is get jealous occasionally because who doesn't get jealous of tons of women (or men) ogling your boyfriend. But as log as you show her she's the only one you have feelings for then it should be fine.
    I suggest sitting her down before the show and explaining to her that this is just a job you do, and that the only one you'll really be thinking of is her. Also tell her how nervous you are so she knows you care about her opinion of you

    • Thanks. I told her something similar to that yesterday. Last night was the first night she's seen me perform!

  • I'm sorry but no. I just can't. I know that not all strippers are like this, but some get paid to do "extra stuff" and it would just break my heart if I found out. And half the things strippers do, even if it's not sex, I consider cheating. I know it's a job and his job, but I am very prudish. If I were ever to be a stripper (I seriously hope it never comes to that), I would understand if men wouldn't wanna date me either.

    I am just into strict monogamy and I wouldn't be ok with strange women seeing my man naked or shoving dollars down his g-string :(

    • I think most of the men who do 'extras' are not working in clubs for women. Men who strip for other men make more money and that becomes a bigger element in those places. A couple guys do regularly hook up with women in the audience after shows.. Yeah.. Lots of money does get put into my g string. Usually the most risqué stuff is during lap dances since about half the women chose for me to be fully nude

    • I consider lapdances, give or receiving, as cheating.

    • Really, why do you consider a lap dance charting?

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  • Personally, in your situation, I totally wouldn't mind. The personality that tends to come with the guys who strip simply because it fits into the nightlife party lifestyle aren't my taste, anyway, so it's less a problem of him being a stripper and more a problem of incompatible personalities.

    To be fair, I have several friends who are or have been strippers, both male and female, so I'm well aware that the people who strip are as varied in personality as any other job. So, if I like you, I wouldn't care.

    • What is this personality type you speak of?

  • Yeah, I can't really say I wouldn't have a problem... but then again, I guess it all kind of comes down to be secure in a relationship. Even so, I think that you might want to find another side job... especially if you wanna keep your girl. Even if its just for the extra cash, I doubt you'd want to see your girl up on stage with a whole bunch of guys drooling over her. Its up to you man... this is simply an opinion.

  • Fine by me. If I was really in love with him. It would take me a moment to get over that there would be a moment of full nudity, (although I'd rather not know any details) but I certainly wouldn't come and watch! That would not help at all. I also wouldn't be comfortable with her watching if I were you, but that's just me. I would want to keep work and private life separate.

  • Nope not a fan of seeing women touching my man's body

    • Agreed

  • If I'm lucky enough to be dating a male stripper whom everyone wants, I'd stay with you. Only if you know to look but not touch other people.

  • I don't know if I would be okey with it. I guess as long as the guy doesn't cheat or anything bad like that it should be fine.

  • Probably not. It's weird to me. I think I said before on here that I wouldn't mind it and yet after thinking about it longer, I probably wouldn't be interested.

    • What bothers you most about it?

    • I don't know. I can't explain it. It's not for me though.

    • Well if the words come to mind would like to hear. I do talk with my girlfriend, but trying to get a better grip on what she may think

  • Yes of course. It's not like he's falling in love on stage while he works. He's probably grossed out that's how it is for women strippers as well. School is expensive which I think is wrong but, as long as it is people have to do what they have to do. And doing what he's doing is tough so is support him. :-)

    You can doubt your so at any time. Even if you love in a bubble. I think it's speak more of his attraction to me that he could have any woman but chooses me:)

    We can't lock our SO in a closet. :p

  • Former male stripper yes I would. But someone who still does while we are in a relationship? I'd rather not. I'm too jealous and passionate for that.

    How did it go? Did she like the show?

  • I would not date a male stripper. I'm a tad bit possessive. The man I am with should be for my eyes, hands, mouth, etc only while we are together.

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