ok so i just started this new job and I kinda like my boss. He is new to the state and doesn't have anyone to really hang out with. He is hard for me to read. I am just getting back into the dating world after 7 years. Ok so one of our co workers lives right across the street from him and our boss wants to hang out with me, our co worker and her husband. I dont know what it is but I think he likes me and I want to make the first move but I dont know I just am not sure yet. He will flirt with me and come up behind me and play with me hair or like when we have meetings i always catch him looking at me. Its funny and kinda cute how he like flirts with me because its kinda like the little things that guys do when you're in grade school. He caught me off gaurd one day when he said something to me, i didn't hear what he said, and then he winked at me and the whole wink threw me off gaurd. Today he was leaving work early and before he left he blew me a kiss goodbye. Any guys out there who may act like that when you like a girl?
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It sounds like he is head over heels. Especially our agegroup. We don't act like that towards girls we are not interested in, especially in a professional environment.
You could safely ask him out, I think, without really worrying about rejection. If he says he is busy, he probably really is, so have a few time slots to choose from.
I might also warn about the dangers of in-office relationships. I am sure you know all about that. But I'm just answering the question here :)0