I am a guy~
Now, with that being said. I would like the mighty yahoo answers the above question after you read my dilemma located below.
It starts like this: This girl and I were selected to do a group project. We would talk online for hours flirting, doing that ask any question about the person game (any question was fair game). Things looked good I was about to ask her out (maybe to see a movie, go to a haunted house I don't know w/e). Then things changed, we had to present the group project.
The project went horrible! The group was total garbage thankful I was able to wing the ending of the project(it was a group presentation). I did the conclusion and got 15/5( It was so good the instructor gave 10 extra points).
After the project any time I would talk to her (six attempts in all) she would say she has to go do X, then she has to go do Y. It felt as if she didn't want to talk to me now that the presentation was over.
Still engulfed by her I asked her if she wanted to study for the mid term and call/txt/im me when she wants to. She didn't call back/txt or IMme back(she said she would). What is funny is she ended up doing horrible on the midterm(yes I know I was very happy she failed for her rudeness for not saying she wouldn't be able to study and completely ignoring me).
This is where it flip flops in a way leaving me clueless. After I deleted her from my contact list via cell phone and Yahoo Messenger I get a message saying sorry she hasn't had time to talk to me... But, before this she seen me in the library and asked how did I do on the mid term I told her what I got then went my own way(maybe she could tell I was little upset).
I responded with the IM saying, "I would have talked to her at the library but it would have been awfully awkward". She responded with, "awww why". I said brb( I wasn't going to answer that and I knew her friend told her I was probably going to ask her out). Then she said, " I gotta go I'll IM you tonight."
It is now two days from that "I gotta go I'll contact you tonight." remark and still no contact...
Phew *puts lotion on hands*
So what is your opinion should I just say screw it and cease contact and stop wasting my time?
btw I originally asked this on yahoo.com, before I realized there was a website dedicated to this kinda stuff(brilliant Idea!).
Most Helpful Guy
What's your end game? I mean do you want to date her or not? You:
-"deleted her from my contact list via cell phone and Yahoo Messenger"
-"told her what I got then went my own way"
-told her "I would have talked to [you] at the library but it would have been awfully awkward" (& then told her "brb" to avoid answering her "why?" response on IM...
I'm guessing you never IM'd her back, so she probably thought you ditched her online).
Then you complain that it's been 2 days since you've heard from her. You just spent the days before that pushing her away! What exactly do you want?1