My best friend is dating this older girl at the moment. He's like a bro to me. I've known him about 5 years now. He had a crush on me back in middle school, but ever since I shut that down, he's been a great friend and is actually on that bro level. My mom calls him son and wants us to end up together, but I'm seriously not feeling it.
Anyways, he's told this new girlfriend I'm like a sis to him but I guess she doesn't believe it. She has his phone 24/7 and doesn't allow him to text any girls. He's not even allowed to go to a theme park with me because she doesn't want him sharing a hotel with me AND my family. She and I basically just got into over the phone. He even got hisself kicked out of his home just so he could continue to date her bossy ass.
I miss my blood-like bro, but Do you allow your girl to takeover your phone?
- I don't cheat, but I also don't hand over my phone.Vote A
- When I'm with her, its her rules.Vote B
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If my girlfriend asked to check my phone I'd give it to her, just to prove it.
Then when she gave it back, I'd probably break up with her on the spot.
I never cheat.
I'm not going to stay with some control freak who can't trust me. Trust is the foundation on which a relationship is built. If she can't trust me, she can't have me.
As for your friend, you need to talk to him. He can't continue on like this.
She has his phone 24/7 and doesn't let him text any girls? She won't even let him go to the park with his best friend?
That's not a relationship, thats a dictatorship.
I mean, she might as well fence him in and call it Ausbitch and rename herself Frauline Hitler.
This needs to stop, he can't let her control his life like this anymore.
Just talk to him. He's your best friend. If anyone can persuade him to stand up for himself its you :)
Good luck and I really hope this helps :)1
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