i said it to a girl out of anger, it was a bad thing to say i know and i felt bad, but only for like 5 seconds because thats when i felt her foot come up between my legs and next minute im breathless on the ground in the worst pain ever. Surely she went over the top?! why couldnt she just slap if she was that mad
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People say shit in the heat of the moment, you just need to control yourself. But I think the whole 'don't call a girl fat' is a bit stupid. Why isn't it 'don't call anyone fat, male or female' or 'don't be critical of others'.
Some girls take it lightly others, as you experienced don't take it so lightly. It depends how you are as a person. Do you care what other people think or do you just want to be happy with yourself? Yes girls AND boys are self-conscious, and obviously no one wants someone talking shit about them.
If someone came up to me and said I was fat I'd tell them they were wrong, maybe think about it for a bit, but I wouldn't dwell on it or punch the guy in the face - unless it got to the point of bullying.
But hey, what I'm trying to say is don't say hurtful stuff to anyone because exaclty what it says on the tin - it hurts. Some people more than others but it still hurts. People want to be attractive so when you shatter that view you also shatter their self-confidence. But again in depends on who the person is and how they'll deal with the critism.
I wouldn't say that if I were you though ;)
Sorry it's so long, but I hope it helps! :)3