Don't do "online dating" mostly it's just thirsty guys, tried but all guys want to do is have sex with men on them lol you won't find nice people on them because these people scare away the nice people with their constant hounding plus disgraceful behavor of trying to push down a girls self-ssteem, stupid guys who make fun of you with their friends or their friends intentionally going ontheir laptops making fun of me while they go to the toilet... or guys just wanting cyber sex constantly hounding me to go on cam... argh... can/t be assed lol i don't know why other people continue.
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For me there's between 6000/7000 meet mes, and 100s of messages per week (300/500). It literally is tooo much. I'm attractive tall sporty and well educated (green eyed brunette). Honestly I''ll not bother with anyone who hasn't written a decent message and indicated they read my profile, and sorry but if you are shorter than me you are disqualified. I don't know why men get a beef about that? But really I do not need to justify why I do not want to look down at my other half. . Never understand why that is so difficult for guys to understand!!
Have you tried a dating site where you need to pay money to speak to someone like eHarmony or RSVP? That might help you weed out some of the dodgy ones.
I hate online dating but decided to use that site for a month. During that time I got the impression that the girls were even less serious than the men. I had one conversation that lasted several days , but the girl fell off the face of the earth. I dont know what women use it for , but its not dating. Also worth mentioning that the site was constantly recommending women who had NOTHING that I was looking for in the way of interests. This is gonna sound strange, but women are the only ones who stand to gain something from online dating sites.
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I tried it once when I moved... I had close to 40 guys message me the first few days saying they wanted to meet me. The number only grew from there. It was a bit overwhelming, to be honest. Some were easy to ignore, like the typical "Let's bang" (or similar comments), but others actually seemed to give thought into their messages and I felt bad. It was difficult to keep up with so I deleted the account, after apologizing and wishing some guys good luck.
I picked A. I have had very little success. Most of the women (not all) but most are either bitter and/or are time wasters who love getting attention. And if you read a lot of women's profiles, you will see that the majority of them are psychologically damaged. My profile is very well written and I have a nice photo, and the messages that I send are well written and thoughtful, however, despite this and the fact that I have been fishing for a while now, I have got very few bites.
All the guys on POF are on fuck buddy sites. It funny because the same guy can say that he wants a close affectionate relationship on one site. Then on the other he's just looking for no string attached fun.
What I have found out though (by experience) is that none of the guys on POF are worth dating. They have more issues than there are people in the world.
Just stick to meeting 'normal people' the normal way ;)I'm not a fan of online dating, too impersonal. If I wanted "ur hawt dtf?" messages all the time id get a Tindr😂
i think guys literally just say hi to every single decent looking girl and hope one bites that's why its very unflattering and stupid. I am not a fish i am a woman :(
I started out on the app Meet Me and that was ok but it got boring and had a lot of creeps I blocked. Then I joined Ok cupid where i met my boyfriend. So try OkCupid
All together in the one year I've used it. 8 people liked my profile and tried to get to know me, 3 of them were guys so fuck that. 3 girls I wasn't attracted too. The last two hit but ended up flaking.
I haven't looked. I haven't really used it... lol. I have an OkCupid that I don't really use as well.
I love POF I've been pretty lucky I've been using it for a years and I love it
Like.1% very few most just use it to self market themselves that's right there are women who market themselves that way.
150 I just have no motivation to go through them all, and I have a message box filled with messages.
That site is such a joke. They even have where if u pay like 50 a month, you can add more photos etc. Sorry but no thanks!! I won't even waste my time there for free.
It is a PROVEN fact that ALL dating sites have thousands of fake profiles.
Its a scam.Never would recommend that site too many scammers on there
Never even bother with it, but I had goood success on social networking sites though. I used to send tons of messages and would get tons of replies. FUCK YEA
I had 400 want to me me lol but only 4 I liked but u didn't meet anyone tbh all the time I was no there I met no one but it's aShit site anyway
MY POF account has been active for nearly 3 weeks and I have just over 1500 people wanting to meet me haha, didn't realise that was a fair amount so it's quite the confidence boost lol!
I got a lot of request and messages. But me and my bf got back together so i ditched it. It was flattering to get all that attention. but i love my man
Very minimal. Dating sites just don't work for me unfortunately.
I have 1075 on the meet me thing on it about 2 months but I've only been contacted by like 105 lol.
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