When my boyfriend and I started dating, he would call to invite me out for a concert, a movie, dinner, etc., but now I feel like I am always the one that calls to see what he is doing. I don't call everyday because I know everyone needs their space, but if I don't call him eventually, we can go for days without any contact. He always agrees to hang out whenever I ask, so I don't think it's that he doesn't want to see me. But, still, what's going on?
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He no longer has a grip of "attraction" that you feel when you are first approaching someone. That feeling makes men strive harder to make women like them. If a guy achieves his goal of dating that woman, he no longer has to strive as hard- but he sure as HELL better make at least a small effort.
I don't know how your staying in the relationship if it is "that bad" but I would recommend recreating that spark with him and/or communicating with him on it.1