Hey I'm in a bit of a conundrum here. We had made plans about two weeks ago to hang out and go mini golfing today but This girl and I were supposed to hang out today but I tried contacting her yesterday but I didn't get a response. This is what happened
Friday: I called her at around 845 we talked on the phone for 30 min then I hung up because she was taking to long on hold and she texted me after saying sorry my mom was being a retard. So at 1230 (Technically Saturday) I called her again and no answer
Saturday: I Text her at 12 saying hey what's up. no response. then I call her at 4 no answer then text her saying your voice mail cracks me up lol call me when you get this I gotta talk to you. still no response.
So as of now are we still hanging out?
because won't I seem desperate and annoying her?
and she initially said when are we hanging out and set a date and place and such
an hour before our supposed hangout
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It's hard to say what is going on with her. It could be that she is having a bad weekend, or maybe she has bad social skills and decided to do something else without telling you, or maybe she's mad at you for some reason.
Whatever the case, I wouldn't worry if I were you. It sounds like you are a pretty normal guy and you have everything right so far. You invited her well in advance to do something with you and you then called to confirm your plans. Once you do that, it is her responsibility to call you back.
She is being very rude because she knows you are waiting around for her. You could be doing something much more interesting than wondering where she is.
If I were you, I would try to have fun for the rest of the day and forget about her. If she later tells you that she got abducted by aliens or was at the emergency room, then make plans to go golfing another time. Otherwise, go and find a girl with better social skills who cares about you enough not to stand you up. Good luck!0
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