I'm open to any race.
I don't really have a preference.
But every now and then, I hear of black guys who have a strong preference for anything but black women.
And they always site personality as the reason for their aversion.
And that strikes me as odd because when have dudes in general ever given a good fuck about personality up front?
More likely, I think some of the visual associations either in the media or otherwise affect them negatively.
I've also seen cases where black men were not raised around many black people in general. So the only black women they ever got to encounter growing up were family members. That can cause them to develop a strong correlation between black women and people you don't have sex with.
When I hear someone say that they will never date someone within their own race, the first thing that come to mind is either self-hate or they have been brainwash bad by society. Its one thing for a person to like and be accepting to date any race, but have a preference for one particular race. Its another thing when a person completely rules out every man/woman of their own race.
Anyway I love all women no matter the race. It's goes against my policy to discriminate based off of race in terms of dating.
I could see why they don't want to date their own ethnicity. It doesn't always translate to self-hate. Sometimes, you feel like more of a family bond with people of your own race and sometimes you just don't find what you have always been around to be attractive. These would be the biggest reasons for me not to find other black men attractive sexually. I don't know about others.
P. s. I'm just giving reasons, I do find black men attractive.
Yea sometimes especially when I see a guy with dreads and brown skin, I automatically think of my brother. I don't exclude black men but at the same time im more drawn to South Pacific and eastern people, and native americans. I can't control that.
if you don't like people of your own ethnicity, something is wrong with you. how can you not be attracted to the male/female versions of yourself? everyone I knew like that had some self hatred/special snowflake issues.
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well i am considered Mexican but i am mixed with different races so i don't look like your standard Mexican from mexico i am mixed with Spanish native American french Mexican and some Persian blood to 5'10 light brown skin hazel eyes and pretty well built and i use to only like Mexican girls because i was taught to by my parents but i have pretty much like a girl from all races at some point cause i can find girls off all shapes sized colors and creeds to be attractive but ATM i have a huge thing for blonde girls and redheads i love colored eyes ;>
I'm one of those that are not really attracted to the same race. There's nothing wrong with them. I did try to date one or a couple times even deep inside me I didn't feel any spark. I just gave myself a try to see if anything would change after several dates. But, really nothing as kicks a spark to sexually like the guy of my own race. But, when it comes to dating from a different race, the sexual attractiveness goes up. And I'm super curious about the person. And I always have to appetite to go out with him.
I've only dated outside. I'm physically attracted to all races, but that's all. there's more to consider than looks.
also, I tend to see those who look like me more as my brothers than potential mates.
I'm not really attracted to my own race. -20 down votes and hate comments- But, it's how I feel and its for some reasons. You can't blame people for not being attracted to their own race. It may be something that happened to them that changed their thoughts. That's like blaming the people that dont believe in God because you believe him. Im not saying I wouldn't talk to my race, be friends with my race, nor look in their direction.
sometimes i feel like this, like now i see biracial and mixed black girls and don't fancy them, like men drool over mixed girls.
but i don't really see the hype, i like brazilian or italian girls more than biracial girls.
when i was younger, only tanned white girls or biracial black girls was my taste, now i seem to have changed. my first crush was a girl with similar race to me.
But now i think biracial girls are ugly
We'll I've never met anyone with my same mix black Persian and Colombian but if I found on will definitely date him ;) but until I find it I like white boys
I'm sorry but I just can't help with what I'm attracted to. And I can't help but to say I'm attracted to NON-BLACK Men, I just have no physical or sexual attraction towards black men at all. Just being honest.
It's not that I wouldn't date black girls I would like to see what other races has to offer. And then when I seen other races had a lot to offer, I decided to do the interracial thing. Black girls is okay. But from what I seen they're all played out so. That's my reason. It's all for the excitement.
I am attracted to my race/ethnicity as well as others.
I dont date members of my own race due to trauma. Im a black man. I come from a black family that was physically abusive, emotionally neglectful and left me alone with a child molestor who was also black. I respect black people and will always want to battle against racism with them but I'm always going to recoil from any kind of intimacy with a black person. It's masochistic for a black woman to want to be put through that.
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I am one of those people. It happens. I am typically not attracted to my own race. Attraction can't be controlled so don't bash me.
I'm attracted to my own race I just don't find many cool guys from my race where I'm from. so I end up mainly hitting on other races instead.
Well, I am blonde white and I think Hispanic men are hotter than white men. But I would never date a Hispanic guy.
Count meh in but i think its prob cuz of im expose to more foreigners than ma own race but than again, i wouldn't mind getting with ma own race.
I don't know how to answer to this.
I'm half-Asian, half-white and I am not even slightly attracted to full-Asians, but I sure am to white men. The hafu men I've met had mostly Asian traits so they weren't that attractive to me.
Half Thai and something else or something else entirely. Even though both parents are Thai, I get thought of as half and half or mixed.
I am open to all but meant for one. :)
I'm attracted to ladies of all races!
Indian girls have preference for white guys so yeah... they aren't attracted much.
Everyone can be attractive! But I do have my preferences sometimes, can't help it!
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