I don't have kids at all and I don't plan on it either. I find it very hypocritical for people ESPECIALLY men with kids say they refuse to date someone with kids and downgrade, Belittle, and bash women with children calling them whores and sluts and criticize them for being single mothers and claiming they don't wanna get involved with a child that's not theirs because that's not their seed and many other reasons which is understandable and there are women who do the same as well. But yet expect someone without kids to date them. I personally think people with children should date people with children and childless people should date other childless people.
I personally would NEVER date someone with a child/children because for one I don't like kids therefore I don't want any and 2, I wanna come first in the relationship and many other reasons. But do you find that hypocritical or not? Share your onions.
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I think whatever combination works for the parties involved is great. What I don't agree with is making a life choice and having a preference, then looking down on people because one thinks he or she is entitled to not have to experience the consequences.
I actually mean that both ways. As a single guy who has zero interest in being with a woman who has children by another man, I don't think it's fair for me to then bitch that I have almost no options within a reasonable age range of me. Likewise, I don't think it's fair for single mothers to say "Man up, Bronto, you selfish ass. Real men raise other men's children!" because they think they should have access to what I have to offer.
So yeah, I agree with you insofar as people insist a potential partner meets their expectations, while also insisting that that partner have no expectations of them. That is hypocritical.0