Bf loves redheads and freckles.I have brown hair,no freckles great body,i'm attractive and many guys hit on me,yet I feel awful about myself and inadequate because my bf loves redheads.He doesn't tell me loves them I know because all the girls he dated in the past were redheads and I found a post on fb where he wrote he likes redheads.Why is he dating me if I'm not a redhead?I feel so awful and cry a lot because deep down I feel like he doesn't find me attractive and always worry that he'll leave me for a redhead:(((((
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Get this out of ur mind!!
Its not like that, Its just like How at some point in life u would have hypothetically described the physical attributes of a man you will want to fall in love with..
Now I am sure all those attributes could not have been filled but do u long for it anymore?
Its does not matter at all, What u have is what u love and start to appreciate that.
Similarly maybe he preferred red heads but its not the only criteria.
You are much much better as a whole person which is why he is with you and of course I am sure he finds u attractive.
But Yeah after some time guys can forget how attractive their girl is, So occasionally u can dress to kill when you are with him outside. He would notice everybody noticing u and remember how hot u are.0