Story: had a nice first date. We kept in touch and met for 2nd date. During 2nd date he kisses me and invites me into his house. I want to but say no because I don't want to get attached too soon emotionally as I know I will if I sleep with a guy. He says we will keep in touch. I go home and text him to thank him for the night. No reply. Next day I text again something about how I enjoyed last night but need to know him better before getting physically intimate, so he doesn't get the impression I'm not interested. Asks him to call me to talk. Nothing. So far nothing and it's been 2 days. I assume he's done the great Houdini act and disappeared. Probably never to return. I'm gutted but can do nothing about it. Should I:
- Something else - please tell me in your answerVote A
- Don't text anything or contact him againVote B
- text him in about a week to say: "it's been nice knowing you and I wish you well and bye"Vote C
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Poor girl. =(
You definitely didn't do anything wrong. I think he may have just been a horny dude who decided to act like a child when he didn't get his way as he had invisioned it.
Even if he hadn't planned on seducing you when you got in, he should have still been flexible enough to keep pursuing you after you decided not too come in.
You don't need to do anything else. You already did more than enough to show you appreciate him, and now only he can swallow his pride and make a move from here. You did do the right thing though. Good luck!1
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