I know I'm a great guy and would make the best boyfriend.but when I like someone I feel like I'm not good like they deserve someone better. Ladies how doe you feel about this? Would you think the guy truly cares about you and thinks highly of you? Or would you just think he's pathetic? Whenever I like someone this goes through my head and makes me think the girl would think I was pathetic. Does me thinking she deserves the perfect guy (someone better than me)make me a good choice for her or does it make me a bad choice for her?
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In my opinion, I feel the same way when I like a guy. Its stupid, because I get second thoughts that im not smart enough, or I will say something stupid and will mess everything up. But I'm slowly coming to terms with the fact that if I'm stuck in this bubble of insecurity, and never ever make a move, then how will you know if things ever turn out right? And life's too short to be an observer. If your rejected, at least you can say that you can move on instead of hanging over the same question for longer. For me, if you show that you really really care and you see me in a light that I would of never thought of myself in, I would be head over heels! Most guys think that coming across as 'emotional' is weak or pathetic, but I think its really attractive, and so do a lot of girls. I would say you have a good chance and yeah, low self esteem sucks but why should this stop you from trying?0