This happened to me a couple of times. Once I acted like a jerk and a normal guy with a girl. The first time I acted nice and she got bored. I was lucky and she forgot about me. The next time I met her she forgot about me and I acted like a jerk and tried to get her drunk to get laid. She liked it a lot lol. I tried this another time with 2 similar girls. With one girl I acted like a prick who was superior to her and she acted submissive and thinks I am some kind of arrogant genius. I did not know what to say to her so I said lame responses so she imagined that she was bellow my intellect and stuff like that. Now I have a stalker. I can't keep that relationship going. With the other girl, I acted a bit nice and she got bored of me and stepped all over me. I had to act a bit bored and annoyed and then she suddenly became interested.
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When guys say they acted nice, they probably were really being obsequious and sucking up. No girl respects that. When you were acting like a jerk, you probably were being cocky and confident. guys are the same way. If I act cocky with an attitude I can hook way more guys than if I play the sweet submissive nice girl.
I think people question niceness in others early on. they look down on a super nice person and don't really respect them because they think they have ulterior motives0