What does this mean? I went on a first date with a guy and he went to show me something on his phone and it said he had 85 unread text messages. I gave him a little shit about it and he laughed saying that he is in a lot of group texts and also he gets sent spam text messages a lot (is that even a thing?).
Is this a red flag? I feel like this is something only the "player" type would do. Just thinking about the 85 text messages that are not even worthy of his time makes me cringe a little.
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"What does this mean?"
It means that contacting him via text is definitely not the way to go.
Other than that, I don't really know that it means anything. If you feel like you can't trust him, then explain it to him.2