So i really like this girl a lot, she has kids and before i met her i would have said no way, but over the months since i got to know her im seriosuly considering dating her.
Give me some pro's and cons. Or at least your general advice about dating someone with kids.
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Do you like children? Do you want to have children (or at least be a stepfather) someday? If not, don't date a single mother. For years, I tried to convince myself that I could date a single mother even though I can't stand children. I was wrong.
That being said, if you want to date her, you must understand that her children will be first in her life; you'll be second. That's normal and expected. But don't let her use her children as an excuse for being late, canceling dates, etc. If she can't manage her time and give you her full attention when you're on a date, she's not good relationship material.1