First of all, i'm beautiful, succesful, elegant, fashionable, witty and well spoken. To the outside world, i seem like a very put together person. This is why I feel even more isolated. However, even though i have never had a shortage of attention from guys, i have managed to like very few guys. I always filtered out the players, the weak guys too unfortunately and was left with the guys I had a good click with or interaction. They were all good guys, we would date and things would be going fine until we reached a stage where things had to progress further. At this point guys reject me, see if a guy rejected me within a few weeks.. i would not feel so hurt. But i get rejected after we develop a substantial bond. I have been given so much pain and gone through so much struggle that I can't pick myself up again and become the confident, secure girl anymore. Before i always trusted that things would eventually end up fine, i would improve and move on. This time, i can't... its been almost a year and i am still in pain. I have given up on ever finding anyone and never want to fall in love again but i want to stop feeling the pain and broken. I want to stop crying every day, stop feelings sad, worthless and unhappy. How do I do this? I go to the gym, meet friends etc. But the last guy hurt me so badly after being so in love. He just suddenly changed and said horrible things, we met again recently and he has just changed. It makes me so sad, after all the progress i made, i ended up with the worst romantic situation ever. So i have no motivation to start all over again and i feel empty. I try so hard to feel ok. Has anyone else been in such a situation and how did they deal?
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tbh i dont see why you must cry every day. I mean, you reject dozens of guys on a regular basis in order to take the select few that make it into your cookie cutter type. Do you think all the guys you reject cry everyday because you rejected them? Rejection is a part of life, and you NEED to get use to it, especially when you have are super picky. I mean all the crying you're doing is almost 100% self induced, which is why i dont get it at all0
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