I feel like this guy may just be afraid of commitment. What's the difference between a player or just afraid? How do you tell?
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A guy that is afraid of commitment, doesn't want relationships and won't use for sex. They generally won't use for sex. If a guy has told you, he is afraid to commit, then he is not a player, but you have to ask yourself, do you want him as a boyfriend for long term commitment. He just might to have fun with a girl. So if you are looking for some fun, with no strings attached, then he is the guys for you.
A player will tell you everything you want to hear, and generally keeps leading you on, and makes you think something is going to happen, and generally never does. He only uses women for his own sexual needs.4