How do you stop being so clingy?

I've kinda noticed that when I start seeing a guy (and when occasionally when I meet potential friends) I start becoming a bit clingy and overanalyse everything. It's super frustrating because it tends to push them away. So how can I become less clingy and insecure?

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Most Helpful Guy

  • It's all about balance.

    Focus on the other parts of your life outside of the relationship

    (friendships, school/work, hobbies, family, etc.)

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    Then the guy you're seeing should enter that fold, but should NOT be the epicenter. :)

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Most Helpful Girl

  • it sounds like you don't have a lot going on in your own life to not obsess over some guy. try out new hobbies so you can spend your time focused on other things. there should be more to your life that just a boy, especially at your age.

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    • Yeah, that's actually pretty spot on lol. Thanks

What Guys Said 2

  • The best way to stop clinginess is to use dryer sheets.

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    • Lol thanks! I'll remember that for next time

  • Keep yourself busy with other things.

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What Girls Said 2

  • Realize you're worth so much more than what is going on in HIS world and the words he says (or doesn't say) to you.

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    • That's actually pretty good advice, thanks

  • I wish I knew.. I tend to get clingy when I fall in love with a guy.

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    • I'm glad I'm not the only one, thanks

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