Girls, A girl thinks I should pay for everything in a relationship because I can afford it. Is she right or is she wrong
- She is right. You should pay for everything just because you can afford it16% (7)
- She is wrong. You shouldn't pay for everything just because you can afford it84% (38)
Most Helpful Girl
Generally speaking, I think she's wrong. I think that when two people are dating or in a relationship, they should share costs.
But one caveat: If you are in a relationship with someone who makes significantly less money than you, you should base your plans according to what they can afford (i. e. you should go on dates to places that they can afford; if you decide to move in together, you should choose a place that they can afford). If, however, YOU want to do things that are outside of their budget, then you should offer to pay. They should not expect you to take them to expensive places and pay their way, however.13