We have been out on a couple of dates, have been hanging out, hooking up and talking for almost 3 months now. But the problem is over those last three months we have been far from eachother because I'm away at school, about 2 hours away, but now I'm moving back to the city where he is so we are going to be close by. I asked him what he thinks about me recently and he said that he thinks I'm a cool girl to hangout with and thinks we really hit it off. I have really started to like him and I would like to see where things could go between us. There is a lot of sexual attraction, he literally cannot keep his hands off me. But we do also have really good conversations and fun together too. But I don't feel he's making an effort really anymore to make anything of it. I don't know if its because of the distance, but still I think he could have made an effort. In the begining he was persistent, asked me out on a date. Even when we text, Im usually the first one to text him and ask how he is doing. Whats his deal, should I just give up and stop trying.
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Are you back yet? If not, time has a way of slowing the wagon down, as the newness and excitement of meeting someone you like wears off a little. That doesn't mean he's lost interest, but it could be he's just waiting for you to be back permanently to pick things back up.
Of course, with time lapses and you two being young and technically single, he very well could have something going on with someone else. If it's not serious, maybe he's just biding his time; or maybe he doesn't know yet. It sounds like he likes you, but it is hard to love someone from a distance for a long period of time.
I wouldn't totally give up on him, but don't put all your eggs into one basket either. Let him know when you're home for good and if he wants to see you, he has your number. You can also start enjoying being home and keep your mind open for someone else who is interested in spending more time with you.
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