So, I never met this guy, but my friends are friends with him. I only know him from Facebook. I commented on one of his pictures and he messages me this.
Him: When are we hanging out?
Me: Yeah, lol. When and where?
Him: Beermuda, then my place lol. (Beermuda is a bar)
Me: Lol, Lincoln might be there (Lincoln is a crazy guy that he is really close with, and I got into a fight with Lincoln because he's psychotic, and was psychotically texting me)
Him: Hell no, it's just me and you. It's a date lol. You should stay over my place and party.
Me: We can go to the Beermuda, but I am not that kind of girl that goes home with guys lol.
Him: I'm not saying sex. i'm saying watch a movie and cuddle, damn lol.
Me: I would like to meet you at the bar, but maybe if things go good, i'll watch a movie haha.
Him: Lol, ok. Sounds good.
Me: Sorry, I'm just trying to be straight up like I'm not trying to give you the wrong impression.
Him: lol ok.
Me: It's totally cool if you don't want to meet up with me haha. I'm just being straight up, but you seem cool. Either way I will respect your decision.
Him: I def want to meet up
Me: Ok, cool! Message me tomorrow with plans lol.
I don't know if I want to meet him because I don't know if he's getting the picture, or if he really does just wnat to meet me? I don't know if he's just bad news? What does this sound like to you? Need opinions lol. Thank you.
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Yeah, this guy's full of shit. How do I know? I've been that same oversexed asshole. That was long ago, but that doesn't make me proud of it. I'm glad you're noticing some serious red flags and you should respect them.
It will be worth it for you when you meet someone who actually wants to take you out on a date and doesn't give you innuendos of doing what you think, while then backtracking trying to proclaim his innocent intentions.
Don't go meet him.1