Why don't they like my appearance or my personality? When I'm being friendly, bubbly and positive, they don't seem drawn to me at all. Do they think its unnatural for a black woman to be happy and upbeat? The last one didn't like me and blocked my phone number. I'm devestated and dont know what to do. How am I ever going to have a biracial baby if I can't get more white men to find me attractive?
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I certainly wouldn't want to date a woman that just wanted a biracial baby out of me. It makes me think she doesn't even trust my race. What you need to remember is that white men catch a lot of crap, for no other reason than being white men. People often act like we are oppressing everyone when most of us are just trying to get through our normal day.
White guys figure black women won't give white guys a chance. Instead we just try to avoid race issues at all especially around blacks. As a result white guys don't spend a lot of time fantasizing about black women. Why would we fantasize about being with someone that we think hates or mistrusts us?
Do you even want a relationship with a white guy, or is it just the biracial baby you want? If you just want the baby I am sure you could find a sperm donor. If you want a relationship then one major problem is getting a white guy to the point he can feel comfortable with the race issues that might come up later on in the relationship. We don't want to feel like you are going to blame the white man every time something comes on the news.0
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