I met a guy(now is my boyfriend) online a year ago, and we chat online often, we met in person a few times, and recently we move in together about a month ago, I found out he sign up in some kind of dating site, I went in the site I saw his profile with pictures and descriptions , I asked him are you looking for other girl? He said to me no, you are the one I wanted to be with , and I love you.. I was up set about this , am I not his type? So why he has profile on dating site?
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Okay anon answer because I am in a long term relationship (not a happy one but there's kids involved so I suffer in silence). I've put my profile up on a few sites because I'm not happy with my relationship and I want more. That's an emotional and sexual more but for many guys it is just the sex; now this guy might really like you but you're not fullfilling him in some way, he may have gotten involved with you and be looking for an exit strategy/back-up plan...I don't know.
The very fact that he has an online dating profile though means there IS something wrong and you need to confront him and not take any BS answers...ask him about the bedroom, are you not doing it enough, not doing something he likes and needs...ask him about your relationship, tell him to be honest, are things working for him...do you need to change something...
But most of all, treat anything he says with a critcal ear - I'm "straying" 15+ years into a relationship...1 year in you should still be all hearts and flowers. Good luck - hope it works out for the best...you look far too good to have to put up with crap ;)0