OK so I've been talking to this girl for about 3 weeks, we've been on 3 dates and they all went really well. On our 3rd date we even slept together (just happened). Now ever since then she's been a bit distant and I've been doing most of the texting. Now i keep it to 1:1 text ratio but since our last date she never texts me. So i asked her to dinner for this past Friday but she said she had a bday party, now i was waiting for her to maybe give me a counter date? or liek another day for us to do something but she hasn't . Now the question is do I wait for her to ask me to hang out or do I have to ask her again, she hasn't really been texting me lately and i've been waiting for her to message me. We haven't messaged since Friday morning and I didn't message her on the weekend. If she's interested will she message me? I dont wanna keep being the one to message.
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If someone likes you, they will make sure you know.
when you get yourself into this type of situation where you're wondering "what's going on" or "what should i do" usually means they're not as interested.
"she hasn't really been texting me lately and i've been waiting for her to message me."
Women are conversation ninjas, so she probably feels bad and "texts" you are her convenience.. I'd let this one go... esp if she does the 1 text per week "check in" bc she's bored.0