So, there is a guy I have feelings for. We went out once and we're friends but he never pursued anything else with me and it kind of stopped. I also found out later that he began dating a female who is the same ethnicity as him and I am wondering if the fact that I am black made him feel as though I wouldn't fit easily enough into his group of friends and with his family who are pretty much all of the same ethnicity. So, for the white guys, honestly, if you were really into a black girl (or a girl of a different race) would you be hesitant of pursuing anything with her because of how well she may or may not fit into your "world" or because of what your friends or family may say?
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To be honest with you there have been very few Black girls with whom I would have considered a relationship with only because I'm not normally attracted to them. Usually they seem to want you to embrace all Black history, heritage and be remorseful for slavery and the represion of Black people. I'm not into paying for crimes I never committed and neither did any of my ancestors. I know because I've done an extensive family tree on ancestry.com. None of my ancestors were ever slave owners yet I'd be expected to repent, if not re-imburse, for slavery and other misdeeds. The price of such an inter-racial relationship is just far too high for me.1