In all honesty I'm starting to believe there isn't a point to it, or rather more likely that I just attract the kind of women who take advantage of my chivalrous nature, before leaving me in the dust. It's been a long ride, so just trying to see where women and guys stand on this subject I suppose.
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IMHO, You gotta be a gentleman. But at the same time, some things are obsolete. Like if you get behind a girl to help her with her coat she'll probably wonder what the hell you're doing. But I always open doors for girls, offer to pay, etc. But be a gentleman, someone who can protect and man up, but gives respect to everyone and makes everyone feel uplifted after they meet you.
But don't mistake being a gentleman for being a "nice guy" or a pushover. Testosterone doesn't equate to being a pushover-nice guy. I'll destroy any mother fucker that does anything to my girl. It's like the new-age-gentleman.2