Why are there girls that's never been courted?

[frozenthorn]

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why a guy won't court a girl he likes even though they're pretty must they both like one another?

[mistninja314]

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1356742-why-should-i-we-approach-you-girls Why should we court said girl? just saying

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[frozenthorn]

read it. I understand what you mean but I think that there are girls who dont know how relationship starts. I mean we all grew up in different ways. we all have different views in life. there are those who blend well with the society and those who dont know how society works. There are those who aren't aware what dating is, what relationship is. They will be stunned when someone will confess to them and be like, "why does he like me?" "how should I respond?" "Is he serious?" "what is the right choice?"

Besides how will there be a relation if there is no courting? you can't just be together when you had an eye to eye contact. you smile and be like "it's us?" how can there be a relation when no one initiates?

[frozenthorn]

Besides should there be a definite answer for a girl to be approached? Is LIKING HER not enough for you to approach her? Is her being herself not an answer? Does she have to be perfect to be approached? There is no such thing as perfection so approaching a girl or not is all up to you but to find a definite reason why approach her, ouch I feel sorry for her because it looks like its not for who she is but for what she is.

[frozenthorn]

I know girls can court guys too but will you feel okay with it? dont you want to show the girl you like what it feels to be with you?

thank you for sharing your opinion. XD

[mistninja314]

I wish we could have had this convo on my question ^_^

But "I know girls can court guys too but will you feel okay with it?" DAMN RIGHT!!! makes things so much easier because you average guy iosn't going to reject a girl OR at least he's going to give her a chance. Girls on the other hand "YEAH ain't gone happen usually" ONTOP of them wasting your time before the rejection or whatever

[frozenthorn]

Thanks. It's my first time here. It truly feels great to know others opinion. ^_^

[mistninja314]

Another Philippines GAGirls YAY (-_^#) I haven't seen an ugly 1 yet ^_^

[TheGuyFromMiddleEast]

Because there are guys, such as myself, who don't even know how to court. maaan :(

[frozenthorn]

But I think when you meet a girl that you really want to be with, you will definitely have the courage to court her besides you don't need to know how, just show her you like her and appreciate her for who she is ^_^

[brownchic]

Hahahaha court already!

[Bethany-Louise]

Because society is changing

[ThisDudeHere]

There are many guys who haven't been courted either. In fact most have not been courted.

[frozenthorn]

that's true ;( maybe it's because most girls want to be courted.

[ThisDudeHere]

Well that is precisely the case. Most girls do want to be courted while most guys are expected to make the first move and court, not the other way around unfortunately.

Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying that women should now court while men sit back and do jack, just that if some one is interested in starting something with some one else, they should just go ahead and do it, regardless of gender. Because if you expect a certain some one to court you in particular when there are dozens more around you for him to court, how do you guarantee that he will come precisely to you? It's best to take the initiative if you think there's a chance.

[frozenthorn]

Right. but it will take a lot of courage for a girl to court especially if she never been in a relation before. you see not all girls have the confidence but of course there are guys too. its just that guys have the upper hand i guess. :)

How will you know if there's a chance?

[ThisDudeHere]

In all honesty I wouldn't know when there's a chance. I've never been in a relationship before. Used to be I lacked confidence to approach. Now I've grown out a backbone in the past few years and I'd like to think that I'm a bit more confident but at this point I just don't know the mechanics behind approaching a girl.

So I have to hope I end up in a situation where I'm like doing something or talking about something with a girl and we get along and the atmosphere is chill. The reverse would work for you as well. If you're doing something and he seems nice, innocent and bit more personal questions about likes and interests can be what brakes the ice. But I don't know. I have only chatted with one girl in my life and it didn't go anywhere...

[frozenthorn]

I hope it goes well for you. Time will tell. ^_^

[ThisDudeHere]

You too ;)

[Klaatu51]

because there r guys that never been courted as well basically

[Dantheman101]

What's courted mean