I wouldn't take it personally :) I'm the exact same way it mainly has to do with my comfort level. I've never really been comfortable saying I love you (even to my own family members). You need to feel secure within yourself because if she didn't love you back she wouldn't still continue being with you. Measure her actions and you'll be able to tell that she does in fact love you but isn't comfortably expressing it verbally. Does she puts your needs before her own? Does she do little sweet things to make you feel good about yourself? Does she support you and give you advice when you need it? Those all equate to love without needing to be said out loud. Good luck with your relationship and I hope you two are happy together :)
Hope my answer helped a little :)
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Honestly, if she already told you she did, you shouldn't worry about it. But what do you mean she "rarely says I love you", if you said it yesterday for the first time? Are you saying it wayy too much? Maybe that's why she doesn't respond.
When you say it too often it loses value. You should make her feel that she is loved everyday, but don't make those words meaningless.
Now don't say it anymore and let her come to you. If she does love you, she will.
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She doesn't want to say I love you because she wouldn't mean it. She feels she's not at that level with you yet and she'd feel bad if she said it and knows she doesn't mean it. It takes women longer to fall in love. Don't give up hope, it may bloom into love, apperciate her honesty
Girls often find saying "I love you" a bit much, especially if your relationship has not been long. I would recommend talking to her about your relationship, and finding out what she thinks. Just because she does not say "I love you" now, doesn't mean she won't in the future.
The only person who can answer that is your girlfriend... Ask her.
It is because she isn't fully read to say it back. It doesn't mean she doesn't love you, but it can be a little difficult for us to say it.
She may just be a little uneasy, because love is a powerful emotion. Or she is just so happy you love her and is being sweet.
She's not feeling the same way yet. Don't push it. Let it happen on its own.
she doesn't feel the same way yet & doesn't know what else to say
she's not ready to say i love you i guessing saying i love you is a big deal to her
Meaning:
your love is a bit more advanced than hers thus far on this trail
but no worries yet - many times one or the other will pass and be in the lead, as you are nowSounds like she doesn't love you. if she doesn't say it
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