are very polite guys a turn off?
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A gentleman is always appreciated! :) There aren't many guys out there who treat girls how they should be treated & it always makes us feel special that you're making an effort :) On the other hand, too much of a gentleman can be frustrating if she has to initiate the first move, lol. I once dated a guy that was too polite to initiate the first kiss even though we both knew how we really felt about each other. It was a long wait and I'm really shy too so it took forever to happen, lol :) I think it's important to be a gentleman but only if you can be playful and mischievous sometimes too, lol :) Being too polite can sometimes put a lot of pressure on the girl because she thinks she has to behave a certain way in order for you to like her :) Hope my answer helped0