Ok so i'm a really laid back guy, things dont really stress me out and im generally always happy and in a good mood. Now i've been seeing this girl for about a month very casual dating and she always tells me that I dont seem to care about anything, Example i was with her a couple days ago and i rolled my new mazda over a curb and it honestly just didn't bother me. She was on me about how I could not care about it and I said "it's just a car and its just a tire". Is she inferring that maybe cause i dont care about things that i dont care about her? Is it a bad quality to be that laid back?
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She may see it that way - that your lack of concern with other things translates to how you feel about her. Girls like guys who show some emotion about things, or are at least passionate about something. It shows you're human and can be vulnerable... but as long as you keep yourself in check. I'm dealing with the exact opposite kind of guy who is twice as moody as any woman I've ever known, and it's very taxing. I honestly wish he were more like you.0