I realized today that I'm very emotionally flat, do you think that's why I fail with girls? After years of depression, just about the only intense emotions I feel are despair and rage outside of that my emotional state is akin to being dead, just nothing. My friend says I'm a bit weird (he didn't know how to describe it) and, that's mostly because of two or three major factors, firstly depression, second, I've been alienated by people my age for the most part, and, while I can talk to them, I can't really relate to them, and third, I plainly don't feel many emotions at all and all of this leads to me being a bit boring, I guess. I tend to ramble on when I'm talking, for instance, and I brag too much, mostly because, I've gotten so used to wearing masks I don't even know who I am anymore. Can anyone give me advice?
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No, it's more likely that they just don't find you interesting, or at least aren't interested as much in a long term relation.
That doesn't necessarily mean you are boring, though. This is just their own personal evaluation. It's highly likely that there are girls who would value your persona, you can't please everyone after all.0