I have been seeing my boyfriend for 10 months now. We have met each others family and friends and have even went on vacation together. He has become a part of my family and vice versa. Three months ago, I told him I love him. I couldn't wait any longer, it was killing me. He didn't say it back, and told me the reason was he had his heart broken in the past and said it too soon. He gave me a kiss and held my hand. he's shown that he loves me about a million times. He is very supportive of me and protective. And I feel very loved in the relationship, but those three little words have been haunting me. Now, I understand that he couldn't say it at that time, but what has been keeping him from saying it after 10 months? I know I shouldn't be a psycho girl over this, but its making me a bit nuts.
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In the scheme if things, 10 months is a drop in a bucket when compared to a lifetime of happiness together... its nothing. I've been hurt before as well, so much so that I've sworn off dating altogether. Some people can recover from being hurt and it may take a loooong time. Are you willing to sacrifice everything because of three little words? You even pointed out yourself that he's shown you that he loves you, just give him time...0