Maybe you're handsome to yourself and to your friends, but girls don't see that?
Maybe girls always presume you're taken?
Maybe you give off the 'I'm not interested in you' vibe, 'but I like talking with you'... Also, it's entirely possible that after they start talking to you they decide you're not interesting/amusing/appealing to them enough and they are disinterested in being anything more than acquaintances...
If you really do look as great as you say, your personality and demeanor are the things that you should question > the factors that do not appeal to women you meet.
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girls are intimidated by attractive guys and most of the time they feel like if you're that hot you probably have a gf or wouldn't find them attractive because they dont feel good enough. you're not necessarily doing anything wrong. just continue being charming and oh one more thing, be assertive; if you find a girl attractive (without a bf) go up to her and talk to her and ask for her number. if you're waiting for her to show you she's interested in you before you make a move, you'll be waiting for a while lol good luck
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Sounds to me like you're thinking too much about this. Sometimes you just have to go with the flow of things, have fun, be yourself and if someone interesting catches your eye then go talk to her.
I am often told that I am a beautiful, intimidating woman because I have a good job and I am very intelligent but I also make people laugh and am very friendly. I get hit on all the time and it does get old. But, when a guy approaches me with sincerity then I am not put off by him and I will actually consider him.
It also depends on what you are looking for. It kind of sounds like you might just want a fling but at the same time want a relationship? You should probably decide on one or the other. If I have learned anything in the past few years, it's that good looking people have no problems finding someone to hook up with but have problems finding someone to be in a relationship with.Is it possible you're going for the wrong women, if you're going for the lots of showy clothes, lots of makeup/ hair, etc wanna be model hot girls, then they probably want someone to take care of them, so you can put all the effort in you want but it's not gonna get you very far. I don't really know what type you're going for but it could be that most girls don't want to meet a guy at a bar either or don't take those meetings seriously
Sounds like you're not trying
Complaining that girls don't come to you? Lol
No offence but you won't find a quality girl that way... Only eventually a desperate one
To be blunt, if you're so confident with yourself why don't you man up and make the first move without overthinking it so much? Just put yourself out there moreI believe that maybe you just haven't found someone that just, clicks. Girls are really confusing. I say continue being a gentleman. if the girls who talk to you don't appreciate it then one is bound to come by who does
Congrats on self analyzing yourself. Hope it works out for you. If you need help ask one of the friends to be the wing man when you go out.
You prob don't flirt. If u don't do that you'll miss out
You don't have sex appeal. You sound aggressive passive.
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