I knew this guy just one month, in the benginning, I just put him completely in my friend zone.
He kept saying how he likes me, one time he asked me he hope I can consider him, do not put him in my friend zone. he would ask me if he can hold my hands, kiss me, hug me, which made me uncomfortable, at that time, everytime I said no to him, he used to say I am too jaded, being my boyfriend will be a torture. After I tole him, I only like who either has a very good looking or he is very patience, accompany with me for long time, he said it is ok, he is patience enough to purse me. He also asked what type guy I like, or what make him unique compared to the guy I have dated, and asked me no less than once, if I am seeing and dating other guys (let me look at his eyes, do not try to lie to him). He always promise he wont' have sex with me, or something he did if I do not like, just tell him, he will stop, but I feel like it is not true.
At the first, I really did not care about him, ignore his text, reply late, he used to complain he has to wait for few hours for my reply, I told him that is who I am, I really do not like being clingy, almost never initiated text. I do not know how but it seems like his play works, after for a while, I started to think about him after one date, then I knew it is bad sign for me, I decided to accept he chased me, gradually move him out of my friend zone.
This weeknd is our last date, we watched movie and hang out in the park, I did not prepare to let him in my home, but he played this again even after I warned him, said he got dizzy, had to wait until he can drive, he can sleep in the car, I do not want to be mean, so I let him in , sleep on the couch. He waked up next morning, then entered my room, hug and slept with me on the bed, then we cuddled after we both waked up, I rejected slightly, stopped him in the middle, told him I do n
I has to think if he gets what he wants, so he just faded away, honestly, I prepared to stop meeting with him any time.