Would you ever consider being friends with your ex?


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  • No. When I date someone it is because I am attracted to them in a romantic way, not a buddy-buddy way. When the romantic parts fails, that is it, nothing left. I would not want to be friends because what point is there? I have enough friends already. Plus, for my future dating partner, why would I want my ex in my life still. All that is going to do is cause problems with jealously and trust issues that I don't want to have to fight or defend for someone that really has nothing contribute to my life anyway. I know it sounds harsh, but life is just easier and less messy that way.

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What Guys Said 4

  • I try to stay friends with all my exs and if we stop being friends it is their choice. I see no reason to hate them or be angry with them in most circumstances. We made a great or decent couple why wouldn't we make good friends? Just because I do not live with my good guy friends doesn't mean I throw them away. So what if out long term life together is a no go we can still be friends. Sadly most of the time emotions get in the way and people can not let go of the things that ended the relationship side of things.

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    • Interesting, you're the only one who said that. Personally I agree with your opinion.

    • I know lol, most people are going to say hell no or that its too complicated. Also society basically tells us from day 1 we shouldn't so I think many do not try. I by no means think its easy, it is totally messy. I think you should step back for awhile and probably at least one of you should start dating again. But I see no reason two mature people can not be friends. I mean how stupid and immature does it sound to be like "yeah we had one fight and I guess we would make terrible long term roommates so we can not be friends at all. " Just dumb to me, stow your shit, forget and move forward. Honestly exs can be the best friends you will ever have if you give it a chance. They know your secrets. They know you and your behaviors super well. They feel they can be honest. They have seen your best and your worst.

  • No. That is an absolutely terrible idea.

    Hey, remember when we used to have sex? Yeah, so glad we stopped that and I get to hear about the new guy fucking you instead.

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  • I think it's too complicated to try and be friends with an ex

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  • No I wouldn't, simply because I never saw her that and I never will.

    If she wants me in her life, she needs to take me back.

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    • I see but wouldn't you want to know how she's doing?

    • Nah, not really.

    • lol okay :)

What Girls Said 2

  • No, if that shit is done then that shit's gotta be done.

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  • I would never.

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