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She Didn't Respond my Text??
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Between seventeen and twenty-one lies a vast expanse of life experience and maturity. I don't doubt your discerning taste in quality womenfolk, but you are talking about a teenager. Be prepared to deal with many of the same fears, obsessions and doubts that assailed your brain a few years back. You may be dealing with a feline who's had second thoughts, or who may still be working up the courage to call you directly. You may have to go back for more face time to get real answers. Work your charms but don't shovel them too thickly or you'll come across as a walking pick-up line.
Secondly, texting is a relatively new behavior and I don't even know that we have an etiquette for this type of communication. Frequently the only thing of any genuine value they manage to convey is whether or not the sender payed attention in English courses. You're doomed to disappointment if you ever think texting could function as an accurate litmus test for the status of a relationship. If you want answers you can rely on, skip the digital magic of modern science, and woo that kitty with your manly ways all up front and personal-like.
Ya ur right why did I text in the first place I should just man up and tell face to face. thanks for being honest!
Well I'm under the impression that you can never contact too early, so I think the first message is fine.
However apologising for the message is just a bit weird.
In the future, if you were that keen, just arrange a time to go on a date with her at Starbucks when you get her number. At least you could have the balls to call her.
Ya your right
:) do you think that she thinks I'm desprate ?
Nope but a little insecure buddy. Thanks for the best answer.
I'll give you some tips for the future;
First, that was great what you did, walking into the store and getting her number. That took balls and it paid off. It usually will so never loose that initiative.
When I get a girls number, I actually ask when they are free, they tell me a day/time, and I say "well I'm going to call you tomorrow to arrange something on (their free night)". That way you show that you're an "Action man"...
...and you'll be calling at a time you both know you're comfortable with. You can actually say "tonight" instead of "tomorrow", but it's just a line to make sure there's no confusion later.
When you send a message, or call and leave a message, never send another one until she responds. It takes restraint, but it pays off.
Hey man I like your answer thanks why the fuk I didn't ask you befor I got her number lol thnx man I'm lucky to have people like you to help me out ! :)
the age gap is a little bit big, but no worries :)! There's a lot of high school girls dating college guys so I don't think there's anything wrong with the age gap in particular. I think after you apologized to her she might have been a little freaked out like, "oh, he was really trying to flirt with me?" I think that she might've just left her phone somewhere. I used to do it all the time and this one guy that used to like me thought I was avoiding him because I never responded his texts and this one guy I used to like practically said the same thing. Now I always keep my cell with me in case someone texts me cos I don't want anyone thinking the same thing anymore. xD
Really? didn't know that, Thanks for telling me
Lol anytime. just think positive. everyone loves an optimist and like I said, don't worry. things will go back to normal soon. hope ur little date will go well ;).
Aww thank you so you much! :)
Your welcome! I was glad to help. :)
you prob freaked her out, especially the age difference. I would just wait awhile if she doesn't answer maybe start over a few days later
True thanx for helping!
thats a large age gap butttttt
i always forget my phone somewhere, and I rarely respond so, maybe that's why she hasn't replied
Ya but it has been 3 Days she hasn't respond :(((((
Fuk@@!!!!
Thanks for helping Ms.Kattrain! :)
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First of all I wouldn't of called her beautiful because if she really is then she probably gets called that everyday so why bother saying that.
I would of just said "Heyyy :). this is Harvey."
Second you text her saying sorry?!?...Dont ever say sorry to a girl unless you did something horrible that requires you to say sorry.
Dont, I repeat don't text her again, wait until she texts you so you don't come off any more needy and if she doesn't reply then oh well there's plenty of girls out there
O f*** your right man thanks for putting that in prospective
well..for one...i would never text a girl when I first start talking to her.
ive talked to girls who hate that...and I tend to agree.
i prefer legit conversations over the phone or in person as opposed to text/instant message.
call her.
maybe she doesn't have text (as crazy as this sounds my best friend doesnt) or maybe she -- like a lot of other girls -- prefers actual conversations to text message conversations.
Ya your probably right thnx man
Being stood up sucks I'm sure, but it happens. But I'll tell you what want happen is anything here. And for future reverance don't apologise for no reason its a sign of weakness and women find it unattractive.
Hey man thnx! she now thinks I'm a coward :(
Eh to be honest yes to did come on too strong. No offense, but she probably looks at you as creepy now. Besides, she's still in high school. Look for a girl whose around your age.
It's all good thnx
You think that she might have given you a fake number?
O sh*t I didn't think about that! What should I do?
True imma gonna take that advice from you thanks for helping :)
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