I know that I have all of these things, not just in my opinion, but have been told by many other people. I've also had terrible luck with dating. I'm wondering if my age and the guys in my age group not being ready to be with a woman with such qualities could be one of the big problems causing this struggle for me.
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They're intimidating because they are attractive. Then truth is most men are put off by the idea of possibly having to compete with other men to get a woman, so they lower their standards somewhat to avoid having to deal with this hassle. This is what men really mean when they say intimidating. It's not that the girl herself is intimidating, rather there's simply nothing she could possibly have to offer to make the prospect of having to compete for her seem worth the stress and effort.1
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