Im a not aggressive at all (unless i abousltly have to), i dont do that "loud clap" etc . I guess you would call me an oreo girl (black on the outside, white on the inside), and i feel like since ghetto, loud black girls ruin it for the rest of us no other race would date us because, they most likely think we are too loud. It kinda sucks that its this way but what can you do... Anyways, I always see videos about how to notice that a white guy likes black girls and do white guys like black girls etc .. but its like the same video over and over. I just want some TRUE answers not the same ones i see on youtube and blogs.
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ok, here we go. first of all, guys your age, are dumb. some might be afraid of the 'looks' or people 'talking'. no matter what the racial mix up is, people are going to talk. trust me. i am dating a black guy for the first time. it's harsh with ignorant people. don't blame things on 'racial stereo types', seriously. a good guy will see you are just YOU, not a color, not a stereotype. most dudes at your age have NO clue how to treat a girl, seriously. don't fret too much, you may have to wait until you are older and boys mature up to handle a socially harsh issue as interracial dating. it SUCKS still having to deal with this shit in this day in age, really. i get called names ALL the time for DATING a black guy. we aren't even serious right now, and people lose their shit. keep your chin up, the right guy will come along when you least expect it, just keep being YOU and kick ass in class! keep them grades up chicka! you are a strong, and obviously sweet girl. just flirt! smile and laugh at their jokes, say nice things, compliment the guy. interracial dating is JUST the same as any other dating. just be you, show your interest, and SMILE! rock on girl!! rock ON!3