do guys really want girls to be straight forward when they ask them out? Im more refering to girls asking random guys out on a date, but im also refering to just girls asking guys out in general.
If a guy came up to me and aks me out, especially if i didn't know him, i would probably say no, even if i found him attractive. Maybe its juts my culture, but i dont think i have heard about anyone that is from where im from, male or female, that just randomly walked up to someone they found cute and asked them out. And i belive thats the reason i would be uncomfortable with it.
So thats why im a bit unsure about what guys actually prefer and/or want. Im kinda sick of being alone and just sitting and waiting for guys to approach me (they rarely do anyway) and i would like to try it, and be activ and changing my lovelife. But i just need to know if i can come across as too agressiv or something
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Absolutely we do. It is refreshing when the woman comes after us. Unfortunately while women want to be equals, they don't want to be when it comes to relationships (asking and pursuing) and paying the check for the date.
It is odd your statement about not going out with someone that just asks you out.
That is the whole point of dating... For me I don't know any women other then family so I can only approach strangers. Although I do it online. But online dating is the same concept. Your approaching someone you don't know.
How would you ever have anyone do date if not for strangers?0